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SDGs: UN dreams big, you should too!

Personal Development

‘Femi Asu

This past weekend, world leaders met at the United Nations General Assembly in New York and adopted new Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs), an ambitious agenda that aims to end poverty, promote prosperity and to protect the environment over the next 15 years.

The SDGs replace the eight Millennium Development Goals, which were adopted in 2000 and expire this year.

The UN came up with a 17-point agenda of goals to build a better world. But some analysts have described the goals as too ambitious and unrealistic.

As I was going through the global goals over the weekend, I could not agree more that a number of them are highly ambitious. They qualify to be called BHAGs – Big Hairy Audacious Goals — a term coined by Jim Collins and Joe Perras in their book ‘Built To Last: Successful Habits of Successful Companies.’

Or what do you say about goals that seek to “end poverty in all its forms everywhere; end hunger, achieve food security…; ensure healthy lives and promote well-being for all at all ages; ensure inclusive and equitable quality education and promote lifelong learning opportunities for all; achieve gender equality and empower all women and girls”, among others?

I’m sure it was not for nothing that the UN Secretary General Ban Ki-Moon said: “We need action from everyone, everywhere. Seventeen sustainable development goals are our guide. They are a to-do list for people and planet, and a blueprint for success. To achieve these new global goals, we will need your high-level commitment. We need a renewed global partnership.”

As the UN SDGs are meant to guide development priorities around the globe over the next 15 years, I believe each one of us should have clear-cut written goals to guide our personal development.

I call them Self-Development Goals. These SDGs are as essential to your personal success as they are to the betterment of the society you live in.

If we all have SDGs to pursue and are determined to achieve them, then the accomplishment of the UN SDGs will not be a tall order.

To improve the world, we must begin by improving ourselves. To improve ourselves, we need to have goals, dreams and visions, and ensure they are big enough to inspire us to break out of our comfort zones and stretch ourselves. We only grow when we stretch.

You must dream big to do big things. When you aim high, it helps you to maximise your God-given potential.

Orison Swett Marden said, “All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible.”

The late personal development legend and American author, Jim Rohn, who passed away in 2009, defined success as the steady progress in reaching your own personal goals.

Do you have personal goals to achieve in the next one, three, five, or 10 years? How committed are you towards improving yourself?

Rohn said, “Unless you change how you are, you will always have what you’ve got. You can have more than you’ve got because you can become more than you are.

“Why not see how far you can go, how much you can earn, how much you can share and how much you can give? Why wouldn’t you want to discover all that you can become?”

It is true that too often people forfeit future success by not continuing to invest in their own development.

Some people reach a certain level and wrongly believe they’ve peaked. Success is a journey, not a destination. You can always become more, do more and share more.

As a stickler for personal development, I believe we can all achieve outstanding results in our lives by constantly seeking to improve our knowledge base and skills set through continuous learning.

Marie Curie, a two-time Nobel Prize winner, said: “You cannot hope to build a better world without improving the individuals. To that end, each of us must work for our own improvement and, at the same time, share a general responsibility for all humanity, our particular duty being to aid those to whom we think we can be most useful.”

How much time are you investing in your personal development?

Brian Tracy in Nigeria tells ‘why some people are more successful than others’

…says every rung on the ladder of success is a new skill that is learnable

‘FEMI ASU

Brian Tracy, one of America’s leading authorities on the development of the human potential and personal effectiveness, on Sunday highlighted what makes the difference between highly successful individuals and others to an elated audience in Nigeria.

Speaking at Daystar Christian Centre in Lagos, the author of best-selling books including ‘Eat That Frog!’ and ‘Maximum Achievement’ said he was born into a poor family and had to set out on the quest as to why some people are more successful than others. In his determined bid to unravel the secrets, he read 66 books on the subject.

“They are more productive; they get more result and they make contribution to the world,” he said of people who are more successful. “If you want to get more from what you do, put more into it.”

On the ladder of success, he said, every rung is a new skill that will help you get more results. “You have more potential than you can use up in your lifetime. You can learn any skill,” he added.

With more skills, you get better, he said, adding that people who are more successful “keep getting better and climb the ladder of success.”

Tracy said the most important quality for success is focus. “If you can focus, you can achieve anything.”

Stating that technology is one of the greatest enemies of success today as it has huge capacity to distract, he said one of the greatest secret of success is to “leave things off; disconnect. Focus on the most important thing. You have to set priorities and focus on those things to get results.”

Task completion – starting and finishing a task – is another quality of people who are more successful than others. “All success comes from task completion,” he said.

Joy is as a result of doing something that improves your life, said Tracy. “Every time you complete a task it makes you happy.”

Successful people are those who have the habit of starting and completing a task, he said, even as he stressed the need to pray to God about one’s desires.

Speaking about the importance of clarity, he said: “If you are clear about what you want, you will start to attract all the resources and people you need to achieve it.”

Writing down goals also set successful people apart from others. “When you write down a goal with your hand, it will be programmed in your subconscious mind.” Quoting Henry Ford, he said any goal can be achieved if you break it down into small tasks.

“Be clear about what you want and focus on that one thing until you get result. What is your most important goal right now?” Tracy challenged the audience. “To achieve the goal you have not achieved before, you need a new skill. Ask yourself ‘which one skill we help me most to achieve my goal?’”

He added: “Be clear about your goals; be clear about the most important skills you need and be clear about the most important tasks that you can do to achieve your goals.”

‘FEMI tweets @asufemi

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Nine hard-learned tips for success

By Shannon Panzo

My own experiences have forged my step-by-step progression from failure to success. I have learned to value failure and appreciate success. I have found that my biggest failures in life have led to my greatest successes. These are the steps I take when overwhelming adversity strikes in my life. I look forward to sharing this hard-earned secret with you.

My story started when my wife and I decided to diversify into a different business. The money needed to support the project came from our property equity over and above our ‘comfortable’ payments. Walking the “path” with all the positive thoughts in the world, we were given a multitude of promises and guarantees, even in writing. We were about to learn a big and expensive lesson.

At the end of the day, we felt much betrayed. The business that would fund the extra payments and more became a ‘money pit’. People that vowed to come to our aid turned a blind eye to us. We were left utterly alone to deal with our problems.

Justifiably so – we created these problems. They were ours to solve.

I have learned along the way that failure is riddled full of success, if you open your eyes to it. Even though most people would count our venture as failure, it was the start of our ‘adventure’ to get a grip, and swing it all back around. Objectively speaking, it is our finest moment.

To come back from this type of overwhelming adversity in the present economic climate is utterly amazing. So many things that could have sunk our battleship along the way have not presented themselves. We dealt with situations that came up. But, we always seemed to come up on top. We have been blessed time and time again.

The Fight is Engaged:

If you find yourself at the bottom of the stack and you are retching because you feel that you have been kicked in the gut from all directions – that is where we were. We decided to ‘fight’! But we decided to fight in a different way. We decided to take advantage of the many years I was teaching others Brain Management to pull oneself out of the wringer. It was time for me to employ the same methods myself. Here are just some of the things we did:

FOCUS – We decided what we wanted – our ‘target’ at the end of the tunnel we could focus on achieving. (We verified our target with subconscious feedback to make sure that it is in our Divine Order.) Even when you are compelled to take care of other things that crop up, you still need the determination to go right back to your focus. Your focus on the target will become so severe, that nothing will get in the way. You may lose some of the battles along the way, but you don’t lose the war.

FORGIVE – Most people don’t like the idea that someone has betrayed you or gotten something over on you, if you don’t forgive them without reservation; it keeps draining your energy. At these critical times, you need all the energy you can muster, and more. So, yes, we forgave them.

We also forgave ourselves. This step is just as important. Whether you feel you were to blame does not matter. Just making sure that energy path is clear can make all the difference, and often does.

INFORMATION – Information, or the lack thereof, can be critical for the decision-making process. To support decisions you must gain access to a tremendous amount of information in a very short amount of time. Reading, even speed reading takes too long.

DIRECTION – What direction we were going to take to accomplish our goal? We programmed and prayed for the guidance and strength to see us through. Whether it be God or Universal Consciousness, we accept the cards we have been dealt and we have taken up the gauntlet to create the path to reach our objective.

PAIN – By accepting pain will be associated with our chosen path, we gain a certain amount of clarity and a sense of control over our environment, while reaching our primary goal. Pain comes in many different forms–our biggest pain was financial.

PASSION – Fully accept it and embrace it – all of the lessons, successes, and failures alike to achieve your objective. We personally have many driving forces to keep on track. Some of these have emotional ties. If you need to gain this, then create it. You will find, if your objective is important enough, the emotional ties will already be there – and they will be STRONG.
“That which does not kill you, makes you Stronger!” Neitzsche

LAW OF ATTRACTION – Working within the Law of Attraction and eliminating as much information that is contradictory to achieving our objective. If you used to watch TV shows with negative content, turn them off. If people are not supporting your decision as to how you have been guided and chosen, then limit your communications with them. You will find that good intentioned friends and relatives are the first to suggest for you to give up because it’s too hard. They are NOT you, and they are not walking your path. The people you choose to gather around you in times of need can be scrutinized by this:
“If they are not part of the solution, then they are part of the problem.”

Whenever you are the person within the struggle, EVERYTHING matters. Every piece of information, especially from loved ones, counts. But you cannot afford to be persuaded off your path if you want to achieve your goals.

LEARN – Learn from your mistakes. Do your best not to fall into the same trap. When you traverse failure, you learn lessons. When you apply those lessons learned, you gain wisdom and success. Never stop learning.

OPPORTUNITY – When 1 door shuts, 100 others open! You must be ready for these opportunities. They have been our life-saver in rough seas. It wasn’t just 1 opportunity; it was and is many combined to create a cumulative effect. The momentum keeps growing. If one thing starts dropping off, something else picks up. It all takes good focused effort. You still need to participate if you are ever going to reach your goal. If the goal is not worth your participation, it is not a worthwhile goal.

So, with those hard-learned tips in mind, I urge you to raise yourself up, you’re your focus, and never give up on reaching your objectives. Know that you will gain your goals, too.
Have a Great Journey!

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What Is Your One Big Thing?

By Phil Cooke

“I’ve found that the most effective and successful way to cut through the clutter of competition…is to simply be remarkable at One Big Thing.”

In a cluttered and distracted world, it doesn’t matter how great your idea is—because if no one’s listening, you’ve failed.

It doesn’t matter if your idea can change the world if the world isn’t paying attention.

So what’s the answer? How do you break through? How do you or your ideas get noticed?

While researching and writing my new book, One Big Thing: Discovering What You were Born to Do, I realized that in today’s distracted, digital culture, when it comes to getting businesses and nonprofit organizations noticed, it takes singular, brilliant execution.

In other words, they do “One Big Thing” extraordinarily well. In today’s hyper-competitive, distracted, cluttered, ADD culture, the best way to get noticed is to be incredible at one thing. For more than 30 years, my work has been helping nonprofit organizations tell their stories. And after three decades, I’ve found that the most effective and successful way to cut through the clutter of competition from other organizations, products, and messages, is to simply be remarkable at One Big Thing.

It’s the same for you. In a distracted, hyper-competitive world, you can’t just be decent at a number of different tasks. Too many people are pretty good, and that doesn’t get you on the radar.

People don’t pay for OK; they pay for great.

It’s important to keep in mind that once you’re successful—once you’ve made it to the top—you can do anything you want. The Salvation Army, for instance, is a global organization that features programs and outreaches to the homeless, disaster relief, human trafficking, poverty, the elderly, those struggling with pornography, youth camps, and much more. It reaches into every corner of need and is making a remarkable impact around the world.

But when William Booth began his ministerial career in 1852, he focused on one thing: reaching the outcasts. Thieves, prostitutes, gamblers, and drunkards were among his first converts to Christianity. As the Salvation Army website says: “To congregations who were desperately poor, he preached hope and salvation. His aim was to lead people to Christ and link them to a church for further spiritual guidance.”

Today, The Salvation Army is one of the largest social service organizations in the world—even launching SAVN.TV—a remarkable, video driven web strategy that is taking them into the digital age.  But William Booth started with one noble cause and was remarkable in his commitment.

For Don Stephens, it was building a floating hospital that became a global organization called Mercy Ships. For Jackson Pollock, it was discovering how splatter could transform his art career.

For Steve Jobs, it was combining design elegance into a computer interface. For Truett Cathy, it was creating the perfect chicken sandwich. For Dean Koontz, it was writing thrillers.

For Jeff Bezos, it was selling books online. For Guy Kawasaki, it was empowering people. For Allison Krauss, it was bluegrass music.

Once they became successful, they could do anything they want. But to get noticed, they focused on One Big Thing.

What about you? What is the One Big Thing you were born to accomplish?

Phil Cooke, an internationally known writer and speaker, has produced media programming in nearly 50 countries around the world.

Culled from CharismaNews

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True Secret to Success (It’s Not What You Think)

By Geoffrey James

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If you’re not exercising this emotional muscle, you’re probably setting yourself up for failure.

I’m utterly convinced that the key to lifelong success is the regular exercise of a single emotional muscle: gratitude.

People who approach life with a sense of gratitude are constantly aware of what’s wonderful in their life. Because they enjoy the fruits of their successes, they seek out more success. And when things don’t go as planned, people who are grateful can put failure into perspective.

By contrast, people who lack gratitude are never truly happy. If they succeed at a task, they don’t enjoy it. For them, a string of successes is like trying to fill a bucket with a huge leak in the bottom. And failure invariably makes them bitter, angry, and discouraged.

Therefore, if you want to be successful, you need to feel more gratitude. Fortunately, gratitude, like most emotions, is like a muscle: The more you use it, the stronger and more resilient it becomes.

Practice Nightly

The best time to exercise gratitude is just before bed. Take out your tablet (electronic or otherwise) and record the events of the day that created positive emotions, either in you or in those around you.

Did you help somebody solve a problem? Write it down. Did you connect with a colleague or friend? Write it down. Did you make somebody smile? Write it down.

What you’re doing is “programming your brain” to view your day more positively. You’re throwing mental focus on what worked well, and shrugging off what didn’t. As a result, you’ll sleep better, and you’ll wake up more refreshed.

Reprogramming Your Brain

More important, you’re also programming your brain to notice even more reasons to feel gratitude. You’ll quickly discover that even a “bad day” is full of moments that are worthy of gratitude. Success becomes sweeter; failure, less sour.

The more regularly you practice this exercise, the stronger its effects.

Over time, your “gratitude muscle” will become so strong that you’ll attract more success into your life, not to mention greater numbers of successful (i.e., grateful) people. You’ll also find yourself thanking people more often. That’s good for you and for them, too.

This method works. If you don’t believe me, try it for at least a week. You’ll be amazed at what a huge difference it makes.

Source: Inc.

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No short cut – go the whole nine yards

By Abimbola Okpabi

Though the world is witnessing  technological advances and seemingly thriving on everything instant, you still have to go the whole nine yards to acquire, retain and exude success. If you keep your attention on learning the tricks of the trade, you will never learn the trade.

SEARCH : What you do not seek, you will never find. Many people miss an opportunity because it is dressed in overall and looks like work. There is something positive in you that is crying out for expression. Locate where it can be maximally expressed and utilised.

CREATE: If you can’t locate an opportunity, create one. You can do that through creative thinking. Make your brain work, it will sweat, but it will improve, it will develop till you become the envy of those around you.

CATCH: when you see an opportunity, catch in on it. Eyes that look are many, but eyes that see are few. Start building those pillars that will take you to the next level.

Success isn’t abstract. It is real and can be achieved at each phase of life.

#Abimbola Okpabi is a graduate of Economics, Lagos State University. She has a strong passion for writing and writes vastly on societal issues affecting women and children, entrepreneurial ideas and concepts, youth empowerment and health issues. She can be reached on bimmby5@gmail.com

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Be Free, Manifest and Succeed

By Babatunde Oladele

I got this insight after watching a movie entitled “Bubble Boy.”

Humans, when caged by self, dogma or fellow humans cannot be free, neither can they manifest their full potential nor succeed in their endeavours. The very thought of freedom, manifestation, and success suggests an image of outward flow of activities rather than an inward blossom.

However, freedom, manifestation and success do not happen without some degrees of internal and external struggles. These restrictions usually come in form of limitations imposed by the self, others or the environment; and it is to the extent that you overcome them that you will be free, become and succeed.

Therefore, to be free, to manifest and to succeed, here are three keys you may find very helpful:

1. Go out

You cannot reach your full potential unless you go out of your comfort zone. Have you seen a tortoise moving before? No matter how big or small it is, it cannot move anywhere until it juts its head out of the shell. Humans are no different; there is no progress unless you go out of your shell. You cannot succeed unless you discard the limiting beliefs and self-doubts that have held you down for whatever length of time. To grow, you need to proceed from one level of reasoning or operation to the next. To succeed, you have to go out of the miry of nonchalance and average performance.

2. Reach out

As you go out of your comfort zone or bland level to pursue your dreams and ideals, you also need to reach out to people and resources that will help you to achieve your objectives along the way. Fortune most often does not favour the taciturn. You need to identify the persons or association that can enhance you as a person as well as enable you to accomplish your aim, and then reach out to them. This is not limited to humans alone; as you are “going out” you will also encounter books, events and other resources that will be helpful to you. Reach out to them, subscribe to them, engage them and assimilate them.

3. Launch out

To the extent that you have gone out and reached out, you also need to launch out with the idea and initiative you have been nursing, or those that occur to you as you become. A popular maxim holds that “people will not celebrate you for your intentions, but your actions.” To succeed, you need to have a sizable action quotient per day. And the key to doing that is making every hour count. Input substance into your hours and you will have a productive day. Never let an hour pass by without a substantial investment of rigorous thinking or effort with short, medium or long-term yield in it. Even the chunk of time you take to rest or spend with your family constitutes a judicious investment of time that will produce positives. So, don’t think it’s all about working alone.

So, dare the odds and discouragements to launch out and start that business, NGO, product/service line, and whatever it is that you have tucked in the recess of your mind for so long. Don’t fall victim of the paralysis that develops from over-analysis. You will never know all there is to know, have all you need to start, nor have a panoramic view of all there is to see about the idea anyway. So start where you are.

I conclude with a saying I heard some years ago, “instead of waiting for a perfect time, make the present time perfect.”

#Babatunde Oladele is a wordsmith, a content consultant and a [Bible-based] life coach. He consults for individuals and corporate organisations on research, writing, editorial, publishing, and post-production matters. He can be reached on babatunde.oladele@gmail.com

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First man fighting vs last man standing

By Adeleke Adeite

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It doesn’t matter if you are living in a humble hut;
Just make sure it is built on the hills of honour.

It doesn’t matter if you are not impressing others;
Just makes sure you are expressing beyond borders.

It doesn’t matter if your purse is not pompous;
Just make sure your passion and purpose is not porous.

It doesn’t matter if your past was painful,
Just make your present peaceful and your prospect powerful.

It doesn’t matter if your sins are like scarlet,
Just be soaked in  soberness and seek for serenity.

It doesn’t matter if you have flaws and falls…
Just have faith and focus to fight on and move forward.

It doesn’t matter if you are slow, just go steady.
Success is not all about speed but significance.

It doesn’t matter if your foundation is faulty,
Fix it if you can or find another ground and forge ahead.

It doesn’t matter if your foes are fiery and forceful;
Just make sure you have friends who are ever faithful.

It doesn’t matter if your forefathers failed;
Don’t be a fairytale for future folks…to read.

It doesn’t matter who is leading if you are still in the race,
Put your heart on winning and increase your pace.

The best is not always to be the first man standing but the last man standing!

#Adeleke Adeite is a graduate of Economics Education from the University of Ado Ekiti. He is a poet, motivational writer and songwriter. He has over four International Poetry Awards to his credit and has won lots of member contest on PoetrySoup International. He is passionate about building positive mindsets in youth . He fervently believes he is a product of God’s grace. He can be reached on princepart@yahoo.com

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‘When I was living in the mud house, I knew it was not going to be a permanent abode’

By ‘Femi Asu

Dr. Otive Igbuzor, the Executive Director of the African Centre for Leadership, Strategy & Development has stressed the importance of personal goals and vision in combating poverty.

Speaking at the 1000 Points of Light Summit, last Saturday, Dr. Otive wowed the youthful audience with his speech titled “Heads Held High: Maintaining Self-Esteem, Personal Goals and Vision in the Midst of Poverty”. 

Said he: “The challenge of poverty is probably the greatest challenge of our time… Individuals have roles to play in combating it. It is possible to escape poverty through personal vision and goals. You have to know that as an individual you are created for a purpose. That is why it is important for you to understand your purpose; it will give meaning to your life, it will simplify your life, it will give a proper focus and it will motivate you. You must understand your purpose.

“There are three key things you need to understand and know for you to hold your held high: purpose, success and happiness.

“You must define for yourself what you think success is and you must understand that success is a journey.”

He defined success as “knowing your purpose in life, growing to reach your maximum potential and sowing seeds that benefit others. It is in that context that you can have a meaningful life.

“Happiness is not about the amount of money that you have; it is the joy that accompanies positive activity. Happiness is a lifestyle. Happiness is an attitude. Happiness is contentment. Do not use others to determine whether you will be happy or not.”

He asked: “Where does success come from? Success comes from the spirit – if you look at the stories and biographies of many successful people, however defined, you will discover that they had some inspiration. The second source of success is the mind. The kind of thoughts in your mind determine a lot.”

“I come from a very humble background, but my parents were not poor because they were rich in values and ideas…I lived in a mud house, my ‘bed’ was made of mud covered with mat… There are certain things you must do as an individual that can make you come out of poverty. If you are disciplined, you work, you save and you invest, you can come out of poverty.

He gave the audience seven keys for combating poverty.

Have a vision. Let your dream be big. Vision is very important.  When I was living in the mud house, I knew I was not going to stay there. You must create a vision of where you are going to.

Have a plan. Vision without a plan is a fantasy. What plan do you have to make your dream a reality? Those plans must have priorities and targets. You must find the capacity to concentrate on one priority at a time.

Have focus. You must talk and think success. You must persevere. You must ignore distractions. The future is a clean slate and it depends on what you write on it.  If you remain poor, don’t blame your father or your mother; they are not responsible. You are responsible for what you are going to become.

Be informed. You must secure all pertinent information concerning your vision. Internet has equalized everybody in terms of access to information.

Create a climate of confidence. Excuse no matter how beautiful is not an alternative to performance.

Help others to become successful and build relationships. What you make happen for others God will make happen for you.

The God factor. You can be strategic, hard-working, but you also need God in your endeavours.”

“To move out of poverty, the beginning points are the riches which you already possess; your talents, your networks, your positive mental attitude”

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The Villa of Vision

By Adeleke Adeite

All men are not the same in culture, colour and content of character. What makes us who we are is not our lovely looks but our outright outlook.

Beauty may be in the eyes of the beholder, but bliss is in the heart of the holder. Until men understand that life rotates round the heart and not the eyes, they may not go far.

I have seen ‘blind’ men making art and crafts and men with sights making ants and shafts. The greatest form of blindness is not the loss of sight but loss of senses.

A ‘blind’ man with an open heart will go places while a man with sight with a blind heart will perish.

Vision is a mansion built with pillars of passion and bricks of burdens.

Successful men are those who identify a burden or problem; developed a passion to solve it; caught a vision from it; created a mission; carved out a success strategy; constructed goals and consistently followed their action plans to crack the puzzle.

I am yet to see a ladder with one step, not even the ladder of irrelevance.

A man who will fail will follow the same step as the man who will succeed; the only difference is where both of them look at and where they are walking towards. Success does not have to do with swiftness or smartness most times; it has to do with strategy and steadfastness.

While a failure looks down and feels inferior; a success looks up and get inspired. Success has nothing to do with where you are coming from but where you are heading to. Remember, a man who has no destination needs no direction.

Success is about seeing a BURDEN –  a picture of human failure – and then having a PASSION – a firm feature to fix the picture. Then catching a VISION: the picture of the future. Then the journey begins.

Success is not determined by what you have but what you do with what you have, MISSION: the structure on which the picture thrives. How you use it is simply the STRATEGY: the measure of pressure you put on the picture. Where you want it what you have to reach is simply your GOAL: the treasure to be derived from the picture.

And how you wish to work out the above is the ACTION PLAN: the procedure to be used to get a treasure out of the picture.

Then when this is followed consistently, Success is the result: A FUTURE FILLED WITH FEATURES OF THE PICTURE.

Vision does not automatically become success; it systematically becomes success. Lack of it does not automatically become failure, it takes a systemic process.

We live in a world of woes. Those who win are those who wield what it takes to woo worth out of the many woes.

You have a choice. Sit down and watch what is happening, stand back and wonder what is happening or strive to make something happen. Envision it!

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#Adeleke Adeite is a graduate of Economics Education from the University of Ado Ekiti. He is a poet, motivational writer and songwriter. He has over four International Poetry Awards to his credit and has won lots of member contest on PoetrySoup International. He is passionate about building positive mindsets in youth . He fervently believes he is a product of God’s grace. He can be reached on princepart@yahoo.com

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